找你找了好久

Finally found this on 土豆instead of youtube.
Still very catchy and nice, habouring so much meaning in the lyrics..

Havent really "read" through and dicepher the lyrics before until like so many years later when i chance upon it again...

It truly depicts the wonders of frnship,not just any form of frenship, but a best friend.
Such a nice feeling if we managd to have someone whom we called our Best friend. Ie. , one and only, one whom you can share all your secrets, you can dont need to "pretend" or put up a brave front everytime.
Someone whome you can speak your mind and still, best of friend.
But how many true friendship really exist as such?

There indeed are, but when we stop to think, was he/her really our best friend?
When time passes by, we stopped contacting.
When a simple misunderstanding can just leave a scar on a "best friend" relationship which makes one ever so reserve whenever confronted again with your best friend...

What's teh real definition and how it felt to really have a best friend beside you?
Often, this term "best friend" is wrongly and too conveniently coined..

yes, many of us have lotsa great buddies around, and they would be considered teh next most treasured possession one can ever get.
But a best friend that can really share your ups and downs even without you mentioning to him/her?


可以彼此分享得意骄傲
不担忧谁的心里不是味道

可以传染给你心情不好
连说一个理由都不需要

可以直来直往提醒劝告
就算争吵也都是为对方好

可以和你商量秘密苦恼
不害怕全世界都会知道

我找你找了好久
一个互相了解的朋友
生活有人分享的时候
快乐就变得容易许多

我找你找了好久
一个拿心来换的朋友
伤痛有人抱紧的时候
未来有什么路不敢走



If I can truly answer these questions, I think I would have found my best friend.
I truly think its a great short lyrics that hits right on the nail, 一针见血 kinda meaning to what a best friend means to one's life..
谁能够划船不用浆
谁能够扬帆没有风向
谁能够离开好朋友
没有感伤

我可以划船不用浆
我可以扬帆没有风向
但是朋友啊
当你离我远去
我却不能不感伤